Dating After Betrayal
Dating After Betrayal is a candid, grounded, and deeply honest exploration of love, self-trust, and rebuilding after betrayal.
Through real dating stories, voice-note-worthy reflections, and honest conversations, Haelly Kirk breaks down what’s actually happening beneath the surface after heartbreak. From attachment patterns and mixed signals to people-pleasing, chemistry, discernment, and learning how to trust yourself again.
This isn’t a podcast about “dating perfectly.”
It’s about understanding why betrayal changed the way you see love, men, yourself, and your future.
It’s about noticing your patterns, questioning the stories betrayal left behind, and learning how to date from clarity, confidence, and calm power instead of fear, fantasy, or survival mode.
Come for the dating stories.
Stay for the self-trust.
Dating After Betrayal
Latest Episodes
When Men Say They Don’t Date Single Moms: Preference, Contempt, and Being a Package, Not Baggage
If you’ve ever heard a man say, “I don’t date single moms,” and felt that little sting in your chest, this episode will help you separate preference from contempt without making someone else’s belief mean something is wrong with you.In t...
What to Do When a Guy Sends You a Rude Joke or Meme
If you’re still questioning whether you’re “too sensitive,” this episode will help you understand what to do when a man sends you a rude joke, meme, or comment that does not feel funny.In this episode, Haelly talks about a real message s...
What Do You Want? Why It’s Not That Simple
In this episode, we’re unpacking one of the most deceptively simple questions: “What do you want?” Inspired by The Notebook scene where Noah asks Allie this question and she says, “It’s not that simple,” we explore why wanting can feel...
What You Haven’t Learned From Betrayal Yet: A Case Study on Samson and Delilah
If you are interested in learning more about how to heal from betrayal and the sneaky ways you might be sabotaging your future with your dream person, book a call with me
The Mother’s Day Episode You Didn’t Know You Needed
Mother’s Day is beautiful… and for some of us, it’s complicated.In this episode, I’m talking about the part of motherhood we don’t always say out loud: the grief, the guilt, the resentment, the longing, and the little girl inside of us w...