Healing with Haelly

78: How to Own Your Throne, Even When You Feel Shaky

Have you ever felt like all your value disappeared the minute you messed up?

In this episode, I share the raw and real story of how I showed up nearly two hours late to a retreat I was co-leading… and the mental spiral that followed. I didn’t want to run away — I wanted to shrink, fawn, over-apologize, and earn my way back into being “okay.”

But what if your worth was never gone to begin with?

This episode is about the power of staying with yourself — even in the moments where shame wants to swallow you whole. We’ll talk about the fawn response, leadership perfectionism, and what it means to sit in your seat of power… even with trembling knees.

Because your throne?
 It was never up for debate.
 Even when you feel shaky — it’s still yours.


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✨ More clarity around what’s keeping you stuck
 ✨ Tangible tools to handle stress and tough emotions
 ✨ A boost in confidence and a deeper connection to your power
 ✨ Practical next steps that feel doable, not overwhelming

This isn’t about venting—it’s about momentum.
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Let’s get you back to feeling like you. 💛

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