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Healing with Haelly
This podcast is a thoughtful exploration of healing and self-discovery, focusing on how our thoughts and beliefs shape our lives. Through a mix of solo episodes and guest interviews, I share insights, personal experiences, and expert perspectives on the diverse modalities of healing. Whether reflecting on my own journey or highlighting the work of individuals making a difference in their fields, this podcast aims to provide an honest and nuanced look at what it means to grow, heal, and live with intention. It’s not about quick fixes—it’s about fostering understanding, curiosity, meaningful change, and loving yourself through it all.
Healing with Haelly
82: If You Want Something, Then Let Yourself Have It
If you want something, then let yourself have it.
That’s the lesson I had to face when planning my trip to California — holding my son’s father accountable for his word, navigating the fallout, and choosing my want over fear.
In this episode, I share:
- The story behind saying yes to California, even when resistance showed up.
- Why 10x Is Easier Than 2x and what it taught me about wants vs needs, simplicity, and letting go.
- The story of a young Michelangelo and how his want created 10x results at only 23.
- The deeper truth of wealth: freedom from vs freedom to.
- Why wanting is the most vulnerable — and most magical — thing we can do.
And yes, I even tie in one of my favorite childhood movies, HalloweenTown, because its wisdom is still shaping how I live today.
✨ Reflection for you: What do you truly want right now that you haven’t let yourself have?
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