88: Learning to Fall Like a Kid Again—“Mommy, Look! I Fell!”

This week’s episode comes straight from a moment at the park with my son, Israel — and honestly, it wrecked me in the best way. We were climbing this giant spider-web rope structure, bouncing around, and Israel suddenly fell. Not a soft fall — a real fall. And instead of crying or getting embarrassed, he popped up smiling like, “Mommy, look! I fell down!” And he wanted to do it again. He studied the fall, played with it, dramatized it, and treated it like an experiment — not a failure. Watching him made me realize how many of us adults take everything so seriously. How many of us shame ourselves for every misstep. Meanwhile, our kids treat falling as part of the game. What would life feel like if we allowed ourselves that freedom?

What if every time we stumbled in business, dating, motherhood, or healing, we could laugh and say, “Look! I fell!” instead of spiraling? My coach once told me the more successful she became, the more willing she was to be made a fool of in front of more people. That line hit differently after watching my son. So this episode is your permission slip to fall, laugh, learn, and rise again — with softness, curiosity, and joy.

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