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The Dating Mistake that Feels Like "Being Nice": Mr. Styrofoam Explained

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You ever stay on a date way longer than you wanted to… just to be “nice”?

In this episode, I break down a recent date with Mr. Styrofoam—where nothing was technically wrong, but everything felt off. While he thought it was going great, I knew within minutes it wasn’t a match… and still stayed for hours.

We’re talking about the subtle dating mistake so many women make: overriding what their body is telling them in the name of politeness. I walk you through the exact moments that felt off, what I noticed, where I stayed longer than I needed to, and what I’d do differently now.

If you’ve ever second-guessed your intuition, stayed out of obligation, or wondered “should I give it more time?”… this episode is for you.

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